Take your folic acid
If you can't remember to take something as important as your folic acid supplement, you shouldn't even think about having a baby.
Your child does not deserve spina bifida.
Your child does not deserve anencephaly.
You would not choose to abort your child, so why would you choose to expose him/her to these devastating birth defects?
We can do better than this, people.
Sorry, I needed to rant to someone.